Hi and welcome back to Love English.
嗨，欢迎来到爱英语。
Now personally I think and I would hope that you would agree we could do with being a little bit kinder in this world，often watching the news，seeing what's going on in the world can make us all feel a little bit well，crap，to be honest.
我个人认为，我希望你会同意我们应该在这个世界上变得更善良一点，经常看新闻，看看世界上发生的事情会，老实说让我们都觉得有点糟。
So in today&39;m going to share 34 expressions phrases，a few idioms to express kindness，compassion to make the people you love care about feel good about themselves.
所以在今天的课中，我将分享34个表达短语，几个表达善良、同情的习语，以使你所爱的人对自己感觉良好。
Now before we get started，I want to share two quotes with you.
在我们开始之前，我想和你分享两句话。
One by Jackie Chan and one by Princess Diana.
一句来自成龙，一句来自戴安娜王妃。
But you have to guess who said which and I will tell you at the end of the lesson.
但是你要猜是谁说的，我会在这节课结束时告诉你。
So number one: &34; Number two: &39;s life.&39;s see if we can achieve that today with one of the 34 expressions that I'm going to share.
第一句：“执行一个随机的善举，不要期待任何回报，确信有一天会有人为你做同样的事情。”第二：“有时候，改变一个人的生活只需要一个善良和关心的举动。”那么让我们来看看我们今天能否用我要分享的34种表达中的一种来达到这个目的。
Right，on with the lesson.
好了，继续上课。
Right，so let's get started with some lovely expressions to compliment positivity to express the joy the fun that a person might bring to your life.
好的，让我们从一些赞美积极的可爱表达开始，来表达一个人可能给你的生活带来的快乐和乐趣。
And remember your job today，use some of these expressions whether you use them and send them in a social media message and a text message or tell somebody face to face exactly how you feel.
记住你今天的工作，使用其中的一些表达方式，不管你是在社交媒体信息或短信中使用它们，还是当面告诉某人你的真实感受。
Do try using these expressions and not just today but every day.
不要只在今天，而是每天都尝试使用这些表达方式。
So number one: You have a great sense of humor.
第一：You have a great sense of humor（你很有幽默感）。
You have a great sense of humor.
你很有幽默感。
When we talk about someone having a sense of humor，it means they're funny，they make you laugh，they make you feel good and entertained.
当我们说一个人有幽默感时，这意味着他们很有趣，他们让你笑，他们让你感觉很好，很有趣。
为生活添情趣 Add spice to life 注：spice 英 [spaɪs]美 [spaɪs]n. 香料，调味品; 香气，香味; 趣味，情趣; 少许;vt. 加香料于; 使增添趣味;[例句]They spiced their conversations and discussions 。
So it's a lovely compliment to pay to somebody.
Because the April Fool's day can add fun to life.
这是对某人的赞美。
你很有幽默感，或者你有一种奇妙的幽默感，无论你想在这里添加什么形容词，但肯定是对某人的赞美。
Number two，&34; seems like it&34;You have an infectious laugh&34;You have an infectious smile." What this means is when they laugh，when they smile，it makes you feel like laughing，it makes you happier or feel like smiling in response.
第二，“infectio（感染）”似乎总是一件相当消极的事情，但你可以对某人说，“你有的微笑很有感染力”，或者“你的笑容很有感染力”。这意味着当他们笑的时候，当他们微笑的时候，它让你感觉想笑，它让你更开心或者想用笑容作为回应。
So it's a massively positive characteristic.
这是一个非常积极的特征。
You're like sunshine on a rainy day.
You're like sunshine on a rainy day（你就像雨天的阳光）。
You're like sunshine on a rainy day，really expressing how positive and the positivity that somebody brings into your life or into a situation.
你就像雨天的阳光，真实地表达了某人给你的生活或处境带来的积极面。
You're like sunshine on a rainy day.
你就像雨天的阳光。
Number four: You bring out the best in people.
第四：You bring out the best in people（你展现了人最好的一面）。
You bring out the best in people.
你展现了人最好的一面。
Somebody who when they're around others，seem to make them better people，make them behave in a better way or feel more positive about life.
当他们和其他人在一起的时候，他们似乎是更好的人，让他们表现得更好，对生活更积极。
You bring out the best in people.
你展现了人最好的一面。
Number five，again relating to people's sense of humor.
第五，同样与人们的幽默感有关。
Jokes are funnier when you tell them.
你讲的笑话更有趣。
Jokes are funnier when you tell them.
你讲的笑话更有趣。
In fact，I have a friend like this who whatever ridiculous or slightly rude joke he makes，he seems to make them funnier than other people.
事实上，我有一个像这样的朋友，无论他开什么可笑或稍微粗鲁的玩笑，他似乎都让他们比其他人说的更有趣。
He's just got a great sense of humor.
他只是很有幽默感。
Now，number six is actually in reference to a lovely idiomatic expression — Behind every cloud is a silver lining.
第六实际上指的是一个可爱的惯用表达——每朵云的背后都有一线希望。
Now what this means is whenever there's a dark or difficult time，you have to look for the positive you have to look and hope that things are going to change.
这意味着每当有黑暗或困难的时候，你必须寻找积极的一面，并希望事情会有所改变。
So that &34; is referring to the sun soon to appear.
“乌云背后的一线曙光”指的是即将出现的太阳。
Now hopefully this expression you'll now understand.
希望你现在能理解这个表达。
You always know how to find that silver lining.
You always know how to find that silver lining（你总是知道如何找到一线希望）。
And of course，this is referring to someone being positive or optimistic.
当然，这是指积极或乐观的人。
No matter the situation，someone can find the positive in it.
不管情况如何，总有人能从中找到积极的一面。
Now，number seven I've never actually used this one before.
第七，我以前从未真正用过这个。
But I think it's a great one and I think it really does express someone who is fun to be around，who makes you feel good.
但我认为这是一个很好的例子，我认为它确实表达了一个人在身边是很有趣的，他让你感觉很好。
You're more fun than bubble wrap.
你比泡泡纸更有趣。
You're more fun than bubble wrap.
你比泡泡纸更有趣。
Now bubble wrap is this stuff.
泡泡纸是这种东西。
And if you&39;s just so tempting and satisfying to squish the little holes of air.
如果你曾经有过这样的经历，你会觉得把这些小洞压扁是一件非常诱人和令人满足的事情。
I don&39;s a stress reliever.
我不知道为什么，这是一种减压神器。
所以你的意思是说某人在你身边让你很享受很有趣，他可能是一个减压者。
But basically，you're saying that good fun.
基本上，你想表达的是这很有趣。
Number eight: You're like a breath of fresh air.
add more fun / pleasure to life
第八：你就像一股清风。
You're like a breath of fresh air，meaning you bring lightness，you bring positivity to a situation.
你就像一股清风，意味着你给环境带来了光明，带来了积极面。
You reinvigorate someone.
你重振了某人。
You make them feel more motivated.
你让他们更有动力。
So &39;re like a breath of fresh air"，is a very very positive expression and a lovely compliment to pay someone.
所以“you're like a breath of fresh air（你就像一股清风）”，是一种非常非常积极的表达，也是对某人的一种可爱的赞美。
Now looking at complimenting people's personal traits.
现在来看看如何赞美别人的个人特质。
It&39;s really positive and enjoyable.
将这些赞美个人化，并识别出某人真正积极且令人愉快的特点，总是很不错的。
Number nine，quite simply，you could say，&34;.
第九，很简单，你可以说：I like your style（我喜欢你的风格）。
I like your style and of course，you are referring to fashion，the way a person dresses.
我喜欢你的风格，当然你指的是时尚，一个人的穿着方式。
So I really like Sabrah's style.
所以我真的很喜欢萨布拉的穿衣风格。
You could even say &34;，I really love someone's style，your style，obviously a little bit stronger than like，but certainly very true for me.
你甚至可以用 love，我真的爱一个人的风格，你的风格，显然比 like 表达的情感强一点点，但对我来说这说法肯定非常真实。
I really like and love Sabrah's style.
我真的很喜欢也很爱萨布拉的穿衣风格。
I'm always copying her clothes.
我总是模仿她的穿衣。
Number ten，a lovely compliment to pay someone.
第十，对某人的赞美。
You're a great listener.
你是一个很好的倾听者。
You're a great listener.
你是一个很好的倾听者。
And in fact，there's very few people I find that are really great listeners.
事实上，我发现很少有人是真正优秀的听众。
It&39;re saying，to be able to give good advice in return or empathy whatever it might be that they need.
这是一件相当困难的事情，不仅要倾听别人，而且要真正理解他们所说的话，能够给出好的建议作为回应，或者感同身受，无论他们需要的是什么。
So you're a great listener is a good solid compliment.
“你是一个很好的倾听者”，是一个很好的赞美。
Number eleven: &39;re inspiring&34;You&34;，meaning you，what you do what you achieve in your life makes me want to achieve more too.
第十一：You&39;re so inspiring（你很鼓舞人心），意思是你做的事情和你在生活中取得的成就让我也想取得更多成就。
So you inspire me.
你激励了我。
You're so inspiring.
你太鼓舞人心了。
Twelve. You're so thoughtful.
十二：你想得真周到。
You're so thoughtful.
你想得真周到。
Again if someone is doing something showing an act of kindness to you，has done something particularly nice，has thought about you in a particular way for a reason，whether that&34;You&34;，showing you appreciate when they do think of you and show acts of kindness.
Similarly，you're very generous，very generous.
同样的表达有 you're very generous（你非常慷慨）。
And of course，you can be generous in different ways，often you can say to someone you're so generous with your time，meaning you make time for me，you listen to me，you help me when I need you.
当然，你可以用不同的方式表示慷慨，通常你可以对某人说感谢你的时间，意思是你为我腾出时间，你倾听我，在我需要你的时候你帮助我。
And to say，&39;re very generous with your time，" is a lovely way of appreciating what someone is doing for you.
说“You're very generous with your time（感谢你的时间）”，是一种欣赏别人为你做的事情的可爱方式。
Now number fourteen，someone who can give really great advice，can give you good guidance and help you when you don't know what to do.
第十四，可以给你很好的建议的人，可以给你很好的指导，在你不知道该怎么做的时候帮助你。
You're wise beyond your years.
你的智慧超越了你的年龄。
You're wise beyond your years.
你的智慧超越了你的年龄。
Now be careful with this one，because you wouldn&39;s older 50，60，70，you'd say it to someone maybe my age or younger.
现在小心这个表达，因为你不会对50岁、60岁、70岁以上的人说，你会对我这个年龄或年龄更小的人说。
That &34; means you have wisdom knowledge and experience and you're able to give and share that wisdom to somebody despite your youth，despite being young.
“你的智慧超越了你的年龄”意味着你有智慧、知识和经验，尽管你年轻，但你能够把这种智慧给别人并分享给别人。
So if someone gives you great advice，if you go to a friend who gives you the right advice and helps you get back on track，you can say，&34;，so more than your actual age.
所以如果有人给你很好的建议，如果你去找一个给你正确建议并帮助你回到正轨的朋友，你可以说：“你的智慧超越了你的年龄”。
Now of course one of the things I like to do is compliment specifically something about that person.
当然，我喜欢做的一件事就是赞美某个人。
So I might say I love your hair.
我可能会说我喜欢你的头发。
I love your makeup if it's a girl.
如果是女孩，我会说我喜欢你的妆容。
I love your top...your sense of style of course.
我喜欢你的……你的时尚感。
So if you use I love your plus a noun then you can complement something specific about that person and make them feel good about themselves.
所以如果你用 I love your 加上一个名词，那么你可以补充那个人的一些具体情况，让他们自我感觉良好。
Similarly，I admire your... Now when we use &34;，it&34;love".
同样的表达还有，I admire you……现在当我们使用 admire 时，它与 love 有点不同。
With &34;，I would say talk about fashion or hair or something more practical.
使用 love 的时候，我会谈时尚或者头发什么的，比较实际的东西。
But with &34;，I would use more of a personality trait.
但是用 admire，我会更多地加上一种性格特征。
I admire your confidence.
我钦佩你的自信。
I admire your kindness.
我钦佩你的善良。
I admire your zest for life，meaning your motivation，your drive to live and enjoy life.
我钦佩你对生活的热情，这意味着你的动力，你生活和享受生活的动力。
So make it more about their personality when you use I admire your... Number seventeen，a lovely idiomatic expression.
所以当你用 I admire your……时，要更多地表现他们的个性。十七，可爱的惯用表达。
You are so down to earth.
你真务实。
You are so down to earth.
你真务实。
When someone is down to earth，it means that they are grounded，that they are sensible，that they don&39;re very realistic.
当一个人脚踏实地时，这意味着他们脚踏实地，他们明智，他们没有疯狂的梦想，他们非常务实。
And it is a compliment.
这是夸奖。
You're so down to earth.
你真务实。
She had no problem mucking in and helping out with the kids despite the chaos.
尽管一片混乱，但她能毫无困难地帮助孩子们。
She is so down to earth.
她是如此务实。
Right，moving on eighteen to twenty-one，complimenting creativity intelligence and I suppose resourcefulness.
好的，第18到21个表达，是赞美创造力、智慧和足智多谋。
Number eighteen，a nice informal way to tell somebody they're intelligent.
第十八，告诉某人他们很聪明的非正式方式。
You're a smart cookie.
你真聪明。
You're a smart cookie.
你真聪明。
Now again I would say this would be used with a particular age group.
我要再次提醒这将用于特定的年龄组。
So probably someone that's younger than you or the same age，not your teacher.
可能是比你小或者同龄的人，而不是你的老师。
You wouldn&39;re a smart cookie but I might say it to a student.
你不会告诉你的老师他们是“聪明的饼干”，但我可能会对一个学生说。
That is great work，you really are a smart cookie.
这项作业很难，你真聪明。
Number nineteen，&34;，meaning it&39;s different and of course quite positive.
第十九，“Your perspective，your way of looking at things is refreshing（你的视角，你看待事物的方式令人耳目一新）”，这意味着它是新的，它是不同的，当然也是相当积极的。
So this is a great expression to use in maybe more of a business environment，a formal situation with colleagues.
因此，这是一个很好的表达方式，可以用在更多的商业环境中，和同事的正式场合。
Your perspective，your view on things is refreshing.
你的视角，你对事物的看法令人耳目一新。
You're always learning new things and trying to improve yourself.
你总是在学习新的东西，努力提高自己。
It's amazing.
太神奇了。
So complimenting someone who does strive and try to learn more whether that's through doing courses or simply reading，educating themselves，is a great compliment to pay.
因此，赞美那些努力学习的人，无论是通过学习课程还是简单的阅读、自我教育，都是一种很好的赞美。
You're always learning new things and trying to better yourself.
你总是在学习新的东西，努力提高自己。
That's amazing.
太神奇了。
Or I admire that about you.
或者我钦佩你。
Now again another expression that if used in the wrong context could sound condescending，like you're talking down to somebody.
现在再来看看另一个表达，如果在错误的语境中使用，听起来可能会显得居高临下，就像你在居高临下地对某人说话一样。
所以要用在正确的人身上，比如你的孩子，小侄女或侄子，你可以说，“you have a good head on your shoulders（你很有头脑）”。你很有头脑。
A little bit like，&39;re a smart cookie".
有点像，“you're a smart cookie”。
You're complimenting somebody on being wise，sensible，being intelligent.
你在称赞某人聪明、理智、智慧。
You have a good head on your shoulders.
你很有头脑。
But it's not as informal，obviously referring to someone being a smart cookie does sound very much a little bit of slang.
但这并不是非正式的，因为显然把某人说成是聪明的小甜饼听起来确实有点俚语的味道。
So you&39;s sensible nature，their intelligence level.
所以你有一个很好的头脑，很好的表达来赞美某人明智的天性，他们的智力水平。
Now it's also nice to compliment a specific action or accomplishment，something that someone has achieved.
赞美一个具体的行动或成就，某人取得的成就也很好。
Twenty-two，you should be proud of yourself.
二十二，you should be proud of yourself（你应该为自己感到骄傲）。
You should be proud of yourself，a nice way to compliment someone and boost their self-confidence.
你应该为自己感到骄傲，这是赞美别人和增强他们自信的好方法。
You should be proud of yourself for doing whatever it is or for getting such fantastic grades at school.
你应该为自己做的一切或在学校取得如此优异的成绩感到骄傲。
You should be proud of yourself.
你应该为自己感到骄傲。
Twenty-three，You're making a difference.
二十三，You're making a difference（你有所作为）。
You're making a big difference.
你有所作为。
And again in a work environment where you're participating in a team activity，this is a great way to really show your appreciation of somebody.
同样，在你参与团队活动的工作环境中，这是真正表达你对某人的欣赏的好方法。
You're really making a big difference.
你有所作为。
You deserve a hug right now.
你现在应该得到一个拥抱。
You deserve a massive hug right now.
你现在应该得到一个大大的拥抱。
When someone&34;Oh I want to hug you. Thank you so much." You deserve a hug right now.
当有人做了什么，取得了什么成就，或者以某种特定的方式帮助了你，你可能只想说，“哦，我想拥抱你。非常感谢。"你现在应该得到一个拥抱。
fun with our lives 说明：“生活多点小乐趣”，小乐趣——用fun较为合适；用with表示伴随着我们的生活，更形象；“多点”，对于中文来说，是要求多一点就行了，不奢望，但“乐趣”当然是越多越好了，因此，用more。
Now number twenty-five，I really like this one，I think this is a little bit more poetic.
二十五，我真的很喜欢这个，我觉得这个有点诗意。
Actions speak louder than words and yours tell an incredible story.
事实胜于雄辩，你的行动讲述了一个不可思议的故事。
Actions speak louder than words and yours tell an incredible story.
事实胜于雄辩，你的行动讲述了一个不可思议的故事。
Now we use the expression，&34;，when we're talking about somebody what they actually do is more significant than them saying something.
当我们谈论某人时，我们使用“行动胜于言语”的表达方式，意思是他们实际做的比他们说的更有意义。
If someone says to you，&39;m really sorry&34;Well，actions speak louder than words. How are you going to show that you&39;re going to stop making the same mistake over and over again." So actions that speak louder than words and yours tell an incredible story，expressing that what someone does how someone behaves shows who they truly are.
如果有人对你说，“哦，我真的很抱歉”，你可以说，“好吧，行动胜于雄辩。你要怎么表达你的歉意？你不会再犯同样的错误了。"事实胜于雄辩，你的行动讲述了一个不可思议的故事，表达的是一个人的所为，一个人的行为展示了他们真实的一面。
And number twenty-six: Is there anything you can't do?
第二十六：有什么你做不到的吗？
Is there anything you can't do?
有什么是你做不到的吗？
So complimenting someone on achieving a great deal on regularly achieving a lot in their life.
因此，称赞某人取得了很大成就，意味着在他们在生活中经常取得很大成就。
&39;t do?&39;re amazing you're fantastic.
“有什么是你做不到的吗？“，意思是你很了不起。
Is there anything you can't do?
有什么是你做不到的吗？
And finally complimenting the whole person.
最后来了解怎么赞美整个人。
I particularly like the last one here，number thirty-four，and I think you will too，it's a little bit more creative and unusual.
我特别喜欢这里的最后的第三十四个表达，我想你也会的，它更有创意，更不寻常。
So number twenty-seven，I appreciate you or I appreciate everything you do.
所以第二十七，我感谢你或者我感谢你所做的一切。
To say &34; is to show that you are truly grateful for what they do and how they impact your life in a positive way.
说“you appreciate someone”是为了表明你真正感激他们所做的事情，以及他们如何以积极的方式影响你的生活。
So I appreciate you or I appreciate what you do.
所以我欣赏你所做的。
Twenty-eight，you have such a great or good heart.
二十八，你有这样一颗伟大或善良的心。
You have such a good great heart.
你有一颗善良伟大的心。
And I think this is particularly nice when we're talking about people that really are very kind，caring，and generous.
我认为当我们谈论真正善良、关心和慷慨的人时，这是特别好的。
Often we refer to someone as having a good heart who is particularly kind，generous，giving.
我们通常称一个人有一颗善良的心，他特别善良、慷慨、善于给予。
So it's a lovely compliment and it really shows that you see them for who they truly are.
所以这是一个可爱的赞美，这真的表明你看到了他们真正的样子。
On a scale of 1 to 10，you&39;re an 11. Obviously，you're going beyond the scale.
在1到10的评分中，你是11分。在1到10的评分中，你是11分。很明显，你超出了范围。
You&34;So on a scale of 1 to 10，you&34;，meaning you're amazing.
你已经超过10了。“在1到10的评分中，你是11分。”，这意味着你很了不起。
Now when you truly appreciate someone，this is a great expression to use.
当你真正欣赏一个人时，这是一个很好的表达方式。
The world would be a better place，if more people were like you.
如果有更多的人像你一样，这个世界会变得更好。
The world would be a better place if more people were like you.
如果有更多的人像你一样，这个世界会变得更好。
Thirty-one，of course we can keep it simple.
三十一，当然可以简单点。
You are wonderful，you&39;re fantastic.
你太棒了。
Or we could take something like，&39;re one of a kind".
或者我们可以采取类似的表达“你是独一无二的”。
You&39;re so unique and different.
你是独一无二的，意味着你是如此独特和不同。
You're one of a kind.
你是独一无二的。
You're special.
你很特别。
You're one in a million.
你是万里挑一的。
&39;re one in a million&39;re one of a kind.
“你是万里挑一”，很像你是独一无二的。
You&39;re very very special，not many people are as lovely as you.
你是万里挑一的，你非常非常特别，没有多少人像你一样可爱。
And number thirty-four，I came across this while I was googling these compliments and I thought this is just great fun.
第三十四，当我在谷歌上搜索这些赞美的时候，我发现了这个，我觉得这很有趣。
You&39;re real.
你比独角兽还厉害，因为你是真实存在的。
You&39;re real.
你比独角兽还厉害，因为你是真实存在的。
Now it's a crazy one so use it with friends，put it jokingly in a birthday card or something like that.
这是一种很疯狂的方法，所以可以和朋友一起用，开玩笑地把它放在生日贺卡或类似的东西里。
But it's just good fun.
但这很有趣。
It's a nice compliment to end with there.
这是一个很好的有关赞美的表达。
So your homework today is to share one of these compliments with a friend of yours，with a family member，with someone you feel might need cheering up or actually showing how much you appreciate them.
你今天的作业是和你的朋友、家庭人、一个你觉得可能需要振作起来或者真正表达你有多感激他们的人分享这些赞美。
And of course，you're more than welcome to compliment me.
当然，非常欢迎你赞美我。
Just comment below and boost my ego a little bit.
就在下面评论一下，帮助我稍微提升一下自我。
So do you remember those two quotes that I shared with you earlier at the beginning of the lesson.
你还记得我在这节课开始时和你分享的那两句话吗？
Well，were you able to guess who said which the first one I shared?
你能猜出我分享的第一句是谁说的吗？
Carry out a random act of kindness with no expectation of reward，safe in the knowledge that one day someone might do the same for you.
执行一个随机的善举，不要期待任何回报，确信有一天会有人为你做同样的事情。
Now that quote was actually by Princess Diana，which means quote number two was by Jackie Chan.
这句话实际上是戴安娜王妃说的，这意味着第二句话是成龙说的。
Sometimes it only takes one act of kindness and caring to change a person's life.
有时候，改变一个人的生活只需要一个善良和关心的举动。
Thank you so much for watching. Bye.
非常感谢观看，拜拜。
